Again it's based on your whole concept of living, am I happy driving a Ford or do I want a BMW??? Do I need one bathroom or four bathrooms for me and my wife.
Affordability is in the eye of the beholder or maybe show and tell to all your friends. Make a plan, review what it is you want to do - sell/buy or design and concept.
You need to sit down with a professional and put a play in motion, call me when your ready to sit down and design your next step.
In the mean time, have a look at the 2nd worst city of affordability.